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Welcome back, First Gens, and happy June! As we begin this new month and new season of the First Gen Madrina, we will begin discussing this month’s theme: conflict and money. This episode reminds us that our emotional relationship with money deserves attention.

For a lot of first gens, money was never just about money growing up. Money was often tied to stress, sacrifice, survival, and sometimes silence. Decisions were often made out of necessity rather than long-term strategy. This often left us without healthy examples of financial communication or conflict resolution. In this episode, I talk about how conflict does not always look like yelling or confrontation. Sometimes it looks like avoiding difficult conversations, staying silent to keep the peace, or shrinking ourselves in situations where we deserve to speak up.

As adults, it could mean accepting a job offer without negotiating salary. It could also look like avoiding asking for a raise even when we know we have earned it. For some, it can mean saying yes to financially supporting family members despite the personal strain it causes. There are many ways that conflict can show up for us first gens.

Money and Conflict

What makes this conversation important is how thinking like this can affect oour mental health. Constant financial stress, avoidance, and people-pleasing can lead to anxiety, burnout, guilt, and emotional exhaustion. Many first gens carry the pressure of wanting financial stability while also feeling conflicted about surpassing the struggles their families faced. This can be incredibly heavy to carry, especially when it’s not being talked about.

In my conversation, I share how the absence of money conversations can become a form of conflict in itself. When fears, expectations, and financial needs go unspoken, they do not disappear. Instead, they often show up through stress, resentment, shame, or difficulty making decisions. Learning how to manage money and communicate openly is not just about financial success. It’s about protecting our mental health.

I want to encourage you all to reflect on the money conversations you may be avoiding. Approach this with compassion and with the support of a professional. Breaking generational patterns takes courage. Every small step toward advocating for ourselves financially is also a step toward healing, growth, and building a healthier future for the generations that come after us.

The First Gen Madrina

The First Gen Madrina is built on three interconnected branches designed to support first-generation students and professionals in wellbeing, wealth, and community:

 Madrina Money focuses on financial wellness through a first-gen lens. This branch supports individuals in unpacking money stories, building sustainable wealth, and gaining the confidence and tools needed to make empowered financial decisions without shame or judgment.

 Madrina Network is dedicated to supporting social work students and professionals. Through resources, coaching, community, and conversations beyond traditional paths, this branch helps social workers navigate burnout, career growth, and non-traditional opportunities while staying aligned with their values.

 Madrina Speaks centers on storytelling, speaking, and education. Through workshops, keynotes, panels, and the podcast, this branch creates space for honest conversations about first-generation experiences, identity, money, and purpose helping individuals feel seen, supported, and empowered.

Together, these branches reflect the heart of The First Gen Madrina: breaking cycles, building confidence, and supporting first-gens as they step into lives of intention, impact, and abundance.

Check out http://thefirstgenmadrina.com for more information!